21 Jan 2014 In order to get a reply from a first message, it needs to be unique. Use your imagination, but remember to be on your best behaviour in a first message. .. I mean are we not on the site for many reasons leading to dating etc
3 Jul 2012 They send first messages endlessly with no results and constantly tell me how useless it is. The guys don't smile, are unkempt, and look like the dating site But, the occasional genuine and well-placed one is great.