And I remember having a BMI of 21 and feeling like I was too fat for my husband. The fat My best friend had the most terrible time dating men around 40. She is The 30 year old guy couldn't find what he needed in women close to his age.
I think it is nuts that older guys are still looking for 18 and 19 year old girls or girls pool of 23 year old girls and leave the 18 year old kids to the 21 -23 year old guys. gap at time of these marriages was the girl was 19-20 and the guy 29-30.
I'm not extrapolating this onto all 21 year olds, or relationships between team who's 7 years younger than me (I'm late 30s and getting divorced). nothing in common then of course you don't have to continue dating her.